This time, a woman named Petra came to my soulwork session. She is a 35-year-old sole proprietor, living with her boyfriend, without children. During this time of recession and deteriorated economic conditions she is constantly under pressure to work more and more, make more calls, visit more clients. Who creates this pressure in her? She does it — her inner critic and pusher. 

Samokritiziranje 246Her inner voice is constantly pushing her: “Stop wasting your time, stop chatting on Facebook, stop watching TV, stop resting, stop postponing your obligations, stop pretending you are overburdened”. And so on. Or even: “You are wasting your time and opportunities again”. Under such pressure, Petra was, of course, even less effective and constantly stressed. Until she came to me.

In the soulwork sessions, she found out that the voice that put pressure on her was in fact the voice of her grandmother who looked after her for nearly her entire childhood. The grandmother’s voice was imprinted in Petra in three ways: 1) As a small girl, Petra listened to her grandmother criticising Petra’s mother (her adult daughter) on a daily basis for not working hard and long enough, and blaming her for having an easier life than the grandmother had had when she was younger. The grandmother constantly reproached her daughter since, in those times, she had to get up at 5 in the morning and what she managed to do by 8 and 10 o’clock, and how there was never time for rest. 2) Petra’s mother put similar pressure on little Petra, telling her to work and work and work. 3) As the grandmother also raised Petra, she put the same pressure on her as she had on her own daughter.

During soulwork, Petra and I resolved this family pattern using a special technique. Then another self-critic appeared: the voice of Petra's grandfather who also pressured Petra's mother to work hard and not rest at all, which Petra had been listening to since she was a child and accepted it as the only truth. The grandfather also thought it was unfair that younger generations had an easier life, did not have to suffer that much, could decide more freely how to build their life and arrange their time. This bow was also untied and the family pattern was resolved using a special technique.

Today, Petra can do her work and plan her obligations at ease, instead of running impulsively to and fro, doing ten things at once and feeling guilty when she takes a rest. Now Petra is free and accountable only to herself, to her presence and future, and no longer to her ancestors.

And how often do you criticise yourself?

Tina Puncer
Soulwork Therapist and Reality Shifter
Completion Process Practitioner

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Sonja from Slovenia: "Tina, first a big, big THANK YOU for your help. I have to tell you I feel great, although I still don’t understand how you could do this in such a short time. I hope this does not seem greedy, but there is something else we could take a look at. It's my self-esteem or fear of being evaluated by other people. When I am in company and I feel evaluating looks all over me (especially from people I don’t know, but also from my acquaintances), I can’t even have a cup of coffee because my hands start shaking and sometimes also my head (at least I think it does). Can we do something about this because it is really bothering me?"

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